Do you have to be mean to have power?
At a time when the word benevolence is in all ears, mouths and corporate events (even from a distance), can we say to ourselves that the good guys are gaining power? Do you ever ...
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Do not let go of your "cheese" for a flattery of your ego!
It always starts with a courteous offer ... This morning, I received a proposal, in English, from a person I do not know and on Linkedin. I analyze this proposal in blue. "Hello Sylvaine, we have created a community of 800 hoteliers ...
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Manage your optimism and that of your team!
||Assertiveness, Coaching, Creativity, Personal development, Enthusiasm, Entrepreneurs, Leadership, Management, Optimism, All items
Why is optimism a key value to develop? 2013 article revamped by a new illustration from PEK It is the expression of the positive mental health of your team and your company in this gloomy and uncertain period, finally ...
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Emotional intelligence during the crisis
My confinement diary, I kept it in articles and videos, almost daily. Since the start of the Coronavirus crisis, we have been emotionally upset: First the shock Denial for some Then the emotional wave! ...
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From denial to resilience, managing the crisis
||Agility, Assertiveness, Coaching, crisis, Personal development, Innovate, Leadership, Management, Optimism, All items, Transformation
Denial Faced with a shock, a change, with himself, the human being is faced with a certain "Denial". As I tell my learners whatever their hierarchical level, the human being has a "friend" called "Denial", he ...
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To be a woman in 2020?
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"Woman of the 80s and woman to the tips of her breasts, having succeeded in amalgamating authority and charm", said Michel Sardou ... who has since made a very sexist clip of his own song ... Oh the beautiful image of the woman ...
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The 7 rules to finally say NO! Article by Sylvaine Messica (written for Psychologies)
||Assertiveness, Daring, Personal development, Leadership, Management, Perform, Spontaneity, All items, Transformation
Some of you have attended my seminars on assertiveness, negotiation and conflict management, so this will remind you of the right principles, and if you have not yet practiced any of these topics, it will help you. in...
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5 reasons to love refusals, column by Sylvaine Messica for Psychologies
||Assertiveness, Coaching, Creativity, Personal development, Leadership, Optimism, Spontaneity, All items, Sale
After last month's article on the Yes, but ... and its antidote the "Yes, and ...", you have learned to use this posture and this magic tool! This month, discover how to boost your mind, turn failure into success, thanks to ...
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Break the codes and unleash your creativity in all spontaneity!
Kenzo World advertising is amazing and emotionally powerful! Spike Jonze, the director of the film "In the skin of John Malkovitch" features the sublime and mischievous model-actress-dancer Margaret Qualley, with the brilliant choreographer Ryan Heffington, that of ...
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The power of spontaneity, the book and the conference!
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I am pleased to announce the publication of our book The Power of Spontaneity, published by Eyrolles, after years of preparation, research and above all practice and teaching! I am the author, Sylvaine Messica and ...
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An upstream commercial career, she has been a professional negotiator and specialist in persuasion and influence since 1990 ...
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